Seven types of gay men
But overall sex is seen to have a much more driven quality for men. Of course some women – and perhaps a growing number- do these things. They are the assertors, the insertors and the predators.
It is men who are driven to seek sex in all its diversities.
SEVEN TYPES OF GAY MEN SERIAL
After all, as we have seen depicted and been told many times, it is overwhelmingly men who rape, who buy pornography, who develop sexual fetishes, who engage in sexual violence of all kinds, and who become the serial killers. And in truth this is often not very nice. It is powerful, natural, driven it is uncontrollable it is penis centered it seeks to orgasm whenever it can. I have started this article with these quite provocative quotes because they capture the very common and very simple story that is most frequently told of male sexuality. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus: Book of Days, 1998. His fulfillment in sex is mainly associated with the release of tension leading to and including the orgasm….
When he becomes aroused, he automatically seeks release. I’ve always been highly sexed…īarney, a gay man, speaking to Gary Dowsett, 1996.įor a man, sex instinctively is a testosterone drive towards the ultimate release of climax. Saturday, Sunday morning, I’d lay in bed and flip myself ten or twelve times, and get the thrill of not being able to ejaculate. I can remember going back when I was six, seven, eight, nine, ten, we had a pub in. Men have an overwhelming desire to relieve themselves upon a woman’s body… From my teenage years I’ve always longed after fucking….Ī male friend speaking to social psychologist Wendy Hollway, 1984. The final version was included in The Handbook of Masculinity Studies